Puppy,
I've read some of your posts but I'm new here so I'm new to DB (my marriage is not in crisis). So forgive me if I could be missing something.

Are your texts and flirty always sexual? Is everything a prelude to sex?

Just as a former wayward run away wife I'm curious.

Also just so you know- one of my closest friends is in crisis in her marriage and I came here to read stuff for her because she's afraid to put anything on her home computer like posting in a forum. Reading alot of posts I thought I might have something to offer some of the guys on the forum based on my past experience.