I went and got my kitchen table and chairs from SIL's house this morning. Then I took my kids to a place called Sneaky Pete's. It is a bar/resturant with 2 pools and volleyball courts right on the lake. I met a meetup group there. There was supposed to be about 55 people there. About 10 showed up. My girls swam and ate nachos while I mingled back and forth with the group and my girls.
I met a guy there that says he is going to have me whipped back into shape within 1 year. He said change my hair style, get some whitening teeth strips, get a new wardrobe, and start lifting weights. He says all these things will help build my confidence back. He says he coaches other guys on things like this. He also said to shave my back. He said it ain't attractive to have hair on the back. lol. Ok. He asked how old I was. I said 34. He said I looked 40, but he is going to have me back to looking 34 again. He asked me if I lost alot of weight. I said yes, 50 pounds. He said he could tell because my face doesn't quite line up with my weight right now. My face is off compared to the rest of my body. I guess it didn't keep up with the weight loss. Something about lines that haven't flatted yet I guess.
But he said he can change me back to where in one year my W will be saying dang and when she does, I won't want anything to do with her anyways he says. Ok.
Tonite I had problems hooking up my washer and getting the hoses tight enough to not shoot out water. After finally getting them on tight I learned that I had Hot on Cold and Cold on Hot. Nice. I will just remember they are opposites. I'm not going through that again tonite.
I picked up ice cream, popcorn and mexican dominos to play with my kids for tonites event at home.
Tomorrow is church and then my girls are going to go to SIL's house for their cousins going away pool party. I am not invited to stay since MIL will be there and she said she will not come if I am there. MIL actually had the nerve to suggest to D11 that W pick them up and bring them so I am no where around the house. This pissed me off. I told D11 to bad. I will take them and pick them up. MIL can get the heck over it. Who gives a crap what she thinks. So D11 ends up texting her mom to ask if she will take them to SIL's house. I'm tempted to text W back and say thank you for the offer, but I will be dropping them off and picking them up.
I might go to a potluck tomorrow afternoon for another meetup group.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
