Oh...and I did comment to MNG on his thread about my experiences with becoming a doormat to W during all of this and how that made me feel and how I couldn't do that. That it made me resentful because I was compromising my morals and beliefs too much and didn't feel good about myself for it. If i don't feel good about myself because of not standing up some for my feelings then I'm not going to be someone that W nor anyone else would ever want to be with. Plus it was affecting my attitude all the time even when I was with D3. Now i'm much happier around everyone and it shows. I can enjoy myself and not dwell on things because I'm not stuffing all my feelings down into the pit of my stomach and then sitting on them. It is a fine line to walk though and as my IC has said...you have to pick your battles. Let the small stuff go that really doesn't mean that much but for major things you have to say what you feel and just leave it at that. Does that make sense? If not i would love your opinion on it for some friendly advice and debate.
