We don't think about "positive" and "negative" signs when we're dropping the rope, dear.
Yes, follow Puppy's advise, you won't be sorry.
Your H has to go back to his "cave" every now and then. He's scared, very scared.
Be the strong, fearless one.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10