MLC survivor.. and I did everything wrong!

[Silver Fox]

I agree, your posts are awesome. Thanks for showing up here and offering a reality check. Especially this for me:

I cannot tell you ENOUGH from experience NOT TO CONTACT THE STUPID OW. the BITCHFIGHT you will get into will UNDERMINE everything you ever thought of yourself and make you feel so rotten you will sink to lows you could never imagine. DONT DO IT. She isnt worth it and most of all, she shouldnt know how much hurt she caused you. Be mysterious. let her WONDER about you forever. Be the sphynx, you'll be so glad in the future.

I've so wanted to contact her over these last awful 2 years and I still have the urge every now and then - really just to say "Hello? Another person here! And your boyfriend is still married to her FYI!"

Thanks for reminding me why I shouldn't. You've been to hell and back - me too - well I'm almost back.