We posted to each other a while back, in fact, you were one of the first posters on my thread. I've been following you off and on.
My heartache is similar. H left with little warning - I thought we were fine too. This time of year is tough for me as well. We went camping, hiking, boating and fishing. He's given it all up for the OW.
Karma takes her time but one day she will catch up with your H and his new bride. Perhaps they think she doesn't travel as far as Thailand? They are sadly mistaken.
Stay strong. As I tell myself over and over again - this too shall pass.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10