NC, I know you DB'd your butt off, as did I. No regrets, and that's good. You know you did your best. But yes, some are DB-proof, imo they are many of them dysfunctional in some or many ways.
I like I think isn't it lwb's response: she says something like WAH wanted to be living a single life or something like that--is that what you say lwb? People know what that means, without you trashing her or anything. I'm planning on using that one myself if you don't mind! Karen