I'm not one to throw up my hands and proclaim 'God's will' is done. His 'will' has always been a mystery to me. I do believe regardless of the circumstances behind our S's return, forgiveness on the LBS's part would have to be one of the biggest prerequisites. It takes a good person with good moral character to forgive what our WAS's have done to us. I commend MWG on that point and wish her good luck.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain