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Thanks guys for the input!

I did have myself a good day. I had 2 goals this morning that I wanted to do today. 1. underwear shopping 2. gym and I managed to do both + more. Treated myself to a nice matching set of underwear and I got lots of running in at the gym. Plus did some food shopping and lots of cleaning...just getting to sit down now and have 2 friends coming over in the next hr to hang out this evening. I actually feel good and I am glad I have been busy!

And not thought about that text once til now!

stop him from assuming that you are and will be always available to him.

I agree with this, I read somewhere else someone saying that H thinks he has them figured out and knows exactly what they'd be doing, etc. I feel this applies to me too. He thinks he knows me so well. I want to be unpredictable! As well as happy for myself and stop the same old same old that keeps happening even now with the patterns H uses to 'check' on me.

Friendly but distant b/c you've got so much going on now that you getting on with life.

I also like this attitude. I AM busy(well some days), lol not just sitting waiting for him to text/call, which he thinks.