I know this was posted awhile ago...but YES! I am feeling this too:
"Is anyone else seeing this finally during their separation from their spouses? You shouldn't be wanting things to go back to how they were. How they were is what you led you to this point in your life right now."
IT feels good to finally feel this way.
P.S. I am spending WAY too much time following robx's story...it is like a good book...i can't put it down!