Well, W came home pretty late last night - but came home. The thing that causes me the most anxiety these days are people in her life pushing/support her. They here story, and just keep the momentum moving for her. I know I can't control it so I shouldn't think about it, but are there any DB skills on dealing with friends/sister/etc encouraging WAW?
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
Only thing I can think of is to try to counteract their influence by exposing the affair to other key people in her life that would be more supportive of the marriage.
I still don't have a "smoking gun" or any real proof of an A. I would think if I bring it up to others she will just deny and use it to strengthen support and evidence of my "controlling, lying" ways.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
A keylogger on her computer, copies of e-mail(s), a GPS on her car, or a voice-activated recorder under the front seat of her car ought to do it pretty quickly, if there is anything.
