From bad to worse

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Haven't been on in a few days trying to keep busy but here is an update.W has taken the kids and moved to her parents.they are only about a mile away.my 2 middle boys stop in and see me when they can but the W and MIL have advised them not to come to the house,this really t's me off.the W and her dad stopped by to pick some clothes on wed.but I think she was just her to bust my nuggets.at first I wasn't going to let her in but after thinking I complied.I moved to our bed room and just kept calm and silent.she started to ramble on that I was the reason our kids can't come home because I won't move out.then later that evening she asked my oldest son (19)to tell the 2 middle boys that what she was doing was right and that I was unstable and she did it to protect the kids,he refused and she threw him out and told him to stay away from the kids.needless to say I haven't seen my youngest S & D for about a week and I haven't called because I don't want to upset them.I went to see a L and have begun the process for spousal support and mortgage allocation as I am disabled and have no income currently.this should blow her skirt up past her ears.right now I am dark and enjoying the P&Q.the biggest advantage I have now is time and patience.they are all crammed in a small two bedroom house and it is starting to get warm.I also sent my 1 son home with a large bag of candy for the 2 little ones,mean maybe, effective absolutely.they will drive the grandparents into submission.OMG more effective then I thought just got off the phone with the W.she said the kids want to come home it isn't fair that the kids can't come home and that S doesn't see why we can't come to some sort of compromise." hello earth calling " I told her in a calm and rational voice that S caused the current sitch and that we were beyond compromise and right now I was too aggravated to to talk about it.S said OK call me when you are ready to talk.I said she would get a call but It wouldn't be from me and said goodbye. I am feeling a little guilty was that the right thing to do ?
and help would be greatly appreciated.thanks in advance and sorry for rambling on.