Do you have a date night every week or 2? I think that's one thing that was missing in my M, and is important. And not to just discuss the R, but just to have a little fun and romance maybe?
And she's getting the number for the IC this weekend, so I hope she can get in asap. If that IC can't do it within a few weeks, she should meet with someone else. Then a lot of her moodiness/thinking things thru can maybe be done with her IC, and just let them worry about it. Not your problem.
We do, Karen, although to be honest I'm not much feeling up to it this weekend. Not sure I want to initiate it, anyway, but I also know that's the same "pouty Puppy" cycle that I've done in the past, so I suppose I'll make some effort to break that.
I think you're right about the IC. I'm her husband, and her friend; I shouldn't have to be (and can't be) her counselor.
