Naej, I am terribly sorry that things got so messed up there and for any part I may have played in it. I had an exchange student from Belgium stay with us and I probably let him get away with a bit more since I understood the cultural differences until he wanted to stay over at his girlfriends. Sorry that isn't going to happen here when you are just 17 and maybe dated the girl once or twice. I am not naive enough to not realize that there are ways around that.

You already get the point I was making. I often wonder how that will be addressed in any future relationship I have. I appreciate you posting to me and would be happy to hear any words of wisdom you can impart on my own situation.

kat


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