I have the same kind of thing too. A friend yesterday was saying maybe it's guilt that causes them to act that way? It must mess with your head: having As, breaking up a family, I wouldn't be able to sleep at night, so I guess they come up with weird ways to survive the guilt or whatever. It's kind of nice that we don't have that guilt; we won't have any regrets or what could have beens later.
I know we didn't db our marriages, although DB saved me I think, but in some way seeing those here that have; I mean it's kind of easier in a way to not have to work on our marriages, don't you think? I think a lot of our WAS are kind of messed-up people and it will be nice to be able to have Rs in the future with healthier people. Karen
