confused.....want to do something.....

[hopeful_cb]

I know I can do whatever I want to by myself. I just have to start acting and doing things that show that - in deed! I have started doing that this week.

I really like this attitude. It is something I need to start telling and believing myself!

We do not have kids.........luckily.....I can actually pick up my life and move forward. He does not need to know anything and it is my choice to bring him into my life.....even one percent.

I agree, the hard part(for me anyway) is changing and deciding to NOT bring him into your life because it has been that way for so long. I know I can be without him eventho I don't necessarily want to.

I have to try to not tell him what I am doing in my life. It is none of his business. ARRG! What do I say when he asks?

I struggle with this too, while I haven't actually seen H recently when I do he always asks these things (I suppose maybe its a good sign that he wants to know?) But I never know how to answer them without answering the questions?!?

Let me know if you guys use anything that works. I feel like 'its none of your business' is a bit harsh. but maybe he needs it!