I just got a text from H.

I was surprised when I saw it was him actually. While I do still sometimes find myself thinking 'I haven't talked to H in a week/2 weeks, etc,' I don't check my phone constantly or expect to hear from him anymore. It used to be painful each time another day went by but not so much now. Don't get me wrong it be great to hear from him more, but I just don't think its realistic at this point.

Anyway, he just said hi hope you had a good week just thought I would see how you are \:\)

The last 2 emails he sent I didn't respond to as I felt there were no questions or anything important I needed say anything about.

He does keep doing this, I feel he is just 'checking on me' and then if he knows I'm ok he leaves it another week or 2 before he feels the need to 'check' on me again.

So I know not to answer right back but, should I answer at all? Should I use this to show him I AM OK w.o him? which I think may kick us back into that pattern I said about above OR should I just leave him wondering by not answering and see if something different happens?


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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