Ok, something weird happened today. I was sitting at home watching tv and the phone rang--it was the wife. She asked how my day was and was just being nice in general. She made it a point to tell me that she had just layed around her apartment all day today--translation, she didn't file divorce paperwork today. She asked if I had eaten yet and if I wanted to go out to dinner. I thought about it for a sec and said sure, why not. So, I went over to her place and she invited me in and showed me every nook and cranny--no sign of OM. I'm sure that's what the show was about. So, we go to dinner and it was very nice. I actually had a good time because there was no relationship talks and I went into this not expecting anything and of course I am being very wary w/ my heart at this point--very cautious. So, we get done and I take her back to her apartment and she asked if I wanted to come up and watch tv. Ok, sure. So, we watched tv for a few hours and kept it light. She did make it a point to tell me that she was thinking of me a lot today. So, I got up to leave, told her goodnight, she thanked me for dinner and watching tv, told me she had a really good time and gave me a kiss and hug.
So, I'll ask the question--WTF?????
I think the key things are a. I didn't put my heart out there to get stomped on again. b. There was no relationship talks. c. We both kept the conversation light. d. I had NO expectations and actually had a good time.
So, I'll ask the question again--WTFO????
Anyone???
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!