It has been 3 weeks since H and I separated

[ALJ]

Thank you Kalni for yor your helpful post. You are right when you say patience is the key. My H says he hasn't been in love with me for a couple of years and I am beginning to see that he is not going to fall back in love with me overnight. It seems like he has built a wall around himself and he is unemotional and neutral toward me when I talk to him. I let him call me, which is every other day and I learned my lesson about sending "I miss you" text messages. He never answers them. I have a long road ahead of me.