The great thing about it is that it diffuses my fear so much to speak with someone who lived through the D, is still dealing with a high drama ex and is happy with her life. Always good to see that what was once my worst nightmare is really manageable.
Not even about H or what I should do, its about me facing down that fear and doing what I need to do step by step...I'm getting it. Breathe...I'm slowly getting it.
