I went to the park yesterday for a walk and I was sitting on a bench condemplating things in my head and daydreaming. One of my closest friends who I have confided in about my situation came over and asked me what I was doing. i told him, we had a quick chat and off he went.
Today my friend called round to another friend of mine's house to say hello. My W was there with his W chatting. Unfortunately, my friend told my wife he saw me in the park and I looked suicidal. My friend is very loyal and he said he was not particularly nice to my W.
She called me earlier to tell me about this conversation she had and she said "Mark, I care about you and was worried because of the children". I told her I was not suicidal and was just sitting on a bench watching the world go by.
Has this been a inadvertant blackslide perpetrated by my friend, and if so is there anything I can do to restore things. I am detaching, DR'ing etc but I wonder if this has put me back some.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
