Chin up, girl. Try not to let that type of event make you sad. It's obvious that you were an important part of her life and she wants to be sure you know that she cares about you, and likely always will. I'm sure she's not pleased with her son's behavior, but it sounds as if mother and son share a common trait of not being able to communicate well. Odd that she used your xh's last name... maybe she was having a "senior moment" and forgot yours?
I hope the run helped and I hope you have an enjoyable evening with NG.
And, I promise not to bring up your DB forum name again. ;-)
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence