Indeed provided the brain of the WAW has not been cast in concrete.
I can tell you that my W is scared, hurt, confused, in denial, avoiding conflict and running / hiding from problems, but definitely not cold or cast in concrete.
Don't under-estimate the addictive effects of an OM on the brain. Often if the first OM does not work they go on the next. And often the WA's do such irresponsible things that they simply can't backtrack from the wayward path.
