Neaj.. I am not 'singling you out' and you are not a scapegoat. My comments to you are only ever in direct response to your comments to me, here and on others threads in the past.
I do NOT post remarks to you because I am emotional or volatile Neaj, I cant have you think that. You can be quite blunt and sort of sound not really on my side sometimes. I wouldnt say I was a 'free spirit', I just have a strong intuitive sense. But thankyou for saying I am charming !
I KNOW we have a long journey ahead, Neaj, I am not stupid. Because I post about the hear and now does not negate the stuff that is coming up a month, a year from now. Its just not relevant yet !
I am just starting on this journey with him and it is nerve racking..I have won him back, but for how long? So perhaps I need some gentle encouragement? And optimism, why not? We all need hope.
I feel perhaps you need to work on some healing for yourself. You post here daily but your H left 8 years ago. For some reason, you have liked to pick away at me. I am not sure what purpose that serves for you, but it hasnt helped me in dealing with my ex!!! These threads are here to help us DB?
If you want to join in with that, like I said, you are more than welcome Neaj. Truly.
