Ali, I was not going to post to you again but you have questioned my integrity and singled me out.I note you still did not concede that many others said the same as me. I am to be the scapegoat,so be it.
Honesty,truthfulness and integrity are things closest to my heart and how I live my life and always have.
I appreciate that you are a free spirit, over enthusiastic and wildly imaginative-that is your charm.
I went back to check for my own sake to see if I had been unfair in my remarks also to try to read of these encounters of nights together that I had missed.The teacher in me I guess. I recognise that we cannot always like/gel with some people but we can always be fair and non judgemental.This I strive to do. I am more than able to apologise if I had been harsh. I like to check facts, I like to verify things, it is how my mind works. Nothing sinister.
I have never felt that not being a cheerleader = negativity.Indeed I have always tried to prevent posters from either drowning in pain and hopelessness or getting too carried away by the small steps only to crash. A balanced approach,this is a long journey for most.
Surely the point of saying something on someones thread is personal.As you say this is a public forum. If you were my daughter I would be saying the same things. You say you have won him back, I would question that,but that is me.What matters is that you believe it b/c you stated it.
You say that you are hurt yet again.I am sorry you feel that way. I also have been very hurt many times over your remarks to me, but I continued to post realising that you are in a very emotional state and volatile. You are right this is not good for other posters to read,so I will no longer post.
I truly hope that you have won him back but fear you have a longer journey ahead than you realise but I admire your certainty and optimism. Nothing I have posted to you has been other than from my heart or truthfully quoted from what you yourself have posted,that any poster can read. I hope this is now laid to rest.
