Hi Sweetie,

Sorry you have to go through this. Here is my 2 cents:

1) Only ask questions if you are ready for undesired answers.
2) Have you read "Not Just Friends"?

Knowing the truth is good, but the truth may hurt.

I doubt she will talk to you.

The only person I can control is me. I can control my thoughts, words and actions. I can set my boundaries. I can set my goals. I trust my feelings. I do things that were once unnatural but "the right thing to do".

My understanding that all cheater are liers. The cheating and lie is exciting and makes the A all that more attractive. You caught him once, now he may be sneakier.

When talking to him, pay attention to details.

This link or similar sites may be helpful:
http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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