New to this Community seeking advice

[Ready2Change]

I am just thinking out loud here:

It sounds like the phone calls are working. Does she initiate any calls? My buddy talks about the cha-cha in relationships. I was getting strange vibes from one of the ladies I am dating. I was doing the bulk of the calling. I pulled back and waited for her to call. (IE gave her space to miss me). She called. I was out GAL. This is attractive......

You have the option to change the agreements any time. First in your actions, then in your words. Maybe calling more frequently, maybe less frequently, maybe on an unpredictable schedule. Maybe increase the duration, shorten the duration. Change the subject.....