"So she called to ask if she could text Dan. I said absolutely NOT, what could you possibly want to say to him. She said, I want to tell him to be careful with my daughter's heart, or something like that... I said no way, he will just figure I put you up to it. I told her I sure hoped she hadn't already sent it...she said no but you never know with her. Aargh." BBJ, I doubt any convo between your mom and Dan can go smoothly because your Mom will most likely speak angrily to him. My guess is it's best to leave it to the pastor to try to reach Dan. In fireproof Caleb's parents never spoke directly to the W. And interestingly when his parents were heading towards breakup it was the dad who wanted it not the mom.
