Is 6 months too long for any hope?

[dday101798]

To answer the title of your thread in question, 6 months is about the average time before results (indications), be postive or negative tend to begin to surface.

Lost, as I said in your other thread, and I know it may be so hard to do, but you need to take your mind off of this!!! NOW! The longer you hurt and the longer you just continue to do nothing and be consumed by it not only will be it harder on you overall, but your child!

In the beginning, when I HAD my children, I did the same, go home, sit outside and be depressed and miserable. Thinking that I was doing everyone a favor by being outside, "out of sight out of mind". Eh-eh, wrong, learned that the day I came in after doing that for weeks and both my boys were crying in the kitchen.

Hmm, wonder why I no longer have rights to anything more than every other weekend with my boys? Food for thought.

And more to chew on. For the last month and half I made great progress, letting her go, getting on with life with me and my boys as my focus. Guess what I did the last two days? Sat in the yard, miserable and depressed and just let life pass me by an dit hurt like hell. But, it didn't last long, but just goes to show, it will always linger in the back of your mind and th longer you let it consume you now, the longer it will take you to heal when you fall later on.

hope that makes some sense.