she suddenly started talking and visiting her mom (whom she hated with a passion)... She started actually having a relationship with her family... And she turned against me so sudden and so violently!!!!
That sounds like a lot of dysfunction.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM