Hey D! Sounds like you are in a good mental place-have a good
perspective!

The OP really doesn't matter in the end. My H was definitely used by his OW and he feels like an idiot-says that all of the time..

Keep up the DBing! I hope you have a great holiday weekend!

M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.