Kittyfish, that's the point. This is the first thing I have discussed with her other than the D and the kids in weeks and weeks. I have been dark.
mnt_dreams, you're right. The concert did do wonders. I have felt better than I have in weeks.
I saw her again this morning at my sons' school awards. It went well from the perspective that I didn't get emotional about it at all. We sat, talked about mundane stuff, and watched our kids. When it was over, I took the boys to stay with my dad while I went to work. The point here is that I was able to do this without it being a big deal.
I'll pick them up after work. I'm looking forward to a nice weekend. There will be one hiccup though. My sister-in-law [her brother's wife], passed away. The memorial service is at 12:00 PM tomorrow. I'm better these days, but I'm still not looking forward to going.
But, I'm not going to focus on that. I feel better.
Me: 39 Wife: 41 Boys: 8 & 5 WAW: 02/11/2009 She Filed For D: 03/26/2009 - Yeah it was that quick!