As far as I can tell this is the bit that you took as personal-highlighted,other than that I did not say anything different to what all the other posters had been saying, not just on this thread but lots of them.It was also in response to Kats post. However it was me that got singled out and not for the first time.
"Kat,
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I guess what I was trying to get across was if this was a brand new guy, would you be staying over so quickly? And really I am trying to get past this American way of being Miss Goody-two-shoes. [/quote)
I am not sure this is the European way, more a personal thing.I know lots of youngsters who are as you say Goody two shoes,I call it self respect."
PS: Kat, if this was a new R, I would DEFINETLY be staying the night. I havent in 20 years just gone out then gone home.. we fell in love, I moved in. 3 times. I know that isnt going to happen this time though!”
I will no longer post to you Ali,you have taken my posts the wrong way many times. I would say that given what you posted again to Kat above,maybe at nearly 40yrs it might be time to approach relationships in a different way.
Btw I just reread your posts from last June, July and August --apart from jobs that came and went are you sure you have grown that much.
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I have grown tremendously in the past 2 years
and won my ex back along the way, which is the point of DBing is it not?
I am happy for you, I won't point out the differences between your thread and Maria's,b/c I think she herself has told you,on more than one occassion. Good luck.
