Yes, she's definitely back with the OM. I have reliable intel. She's desperate to keep that R going. She's arranging several trips for them to get together, even though he's told her he won't move here.
I don't need to tell her that her R with OM will be the end of us. She's going to see that she's losing me, because she is. Whether she comes around soon enough to catch me before I'm gone, who knows? Truthfully, I doubt it, given what I hear about her and OM. I'm not worrying about it anymore, I'm just going to live my life, and hold nothing back.
I do genuinely love my W, and I am worried about her. She is waaaay overinvested in this OM, and she is heading toward a world of hurt. I actually feel bad for her. Out of my control though.