Great to hear it isn't a bad thing...about the surgery. As far as the way H behaves towards me...it used to really hurt my feelings. I would cry because I couldn't understand how someone I loved could treat me that way. But, now...it doesn't hurt. Now, I think....OW gets to deal with this crap from him. OW gets to be the one he is trying to cheat on. OW gets to put up with his attitude, laziness, mean spirit. OW gets to be the one he uses. She truly did me a favor...sad, but true. I once (just once) considered warning her....but, then I thought 1) she won't listen 2) she won't believe me and 3) Why should I warn the woman that helped destroy my M and family....she gets what she deserves.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him