Its so hard to do, but you gotta relax a little buddy. That starts with GAL. Go out and DO and LIVE. It really and truly will help.
You know this is going to sound hypocritical coming from me as I struggle with this one as well, but Wifey is absolutely right.
One of the things I have done is that I've gotten a number of picture frames/wall art which has sayings that are related to this to help keep me focused.
One of my favorite is "Live, Laugh and Love like there is no tomorrow". That's on a picture frame where I have pictures of each of my boys and one where the 4 of us are together happy - at least my wife looked happy as well, according to her she was faking it :-p
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
