I'm a little worried about your spending the night b/c I'd like to see him work for you a bit more, but it is soooooo easy for me to say that when I'm here and not walking in your shoes.
Would I act differently if I were in your position? I'm not sure I would have the ability to say no and I'd most likely spend the night too. Does it mean that is what I think deep down is the best thing to do? No, but it is probably the path that most of us would succomb to.
In the end, you know what you need to do and what will and won't work. You love this man and of course it would be wonderful to be his lover again as you've shared a lot and have a bond.
Just be careful when you evaluate the situation. If it seems like a good thing - jump on it. If not, hold back. Besides, denying him will increase the anticipation, so it could end up being a good thing for you to stay over, but not have sex w/him.
Being realistic, I understand how much will power that would take, but again, you'll have to read it for what it is worth tonight and go from there!
I hope this stupid American is making some sort of sense!?! It sounds good in my head, but I'm also single and divorced.
Have fun tonight and I'll look forward to the updates!
