Wow..thats pretty strong and unnecessary? Neaj.. Maria is right. You made a comment earlier about self resepct which I felt was rather personal. Also does anyone remember posting to Maria that way? NO... everyone encouraged her, nagged her even to be intimate with her H when he came back. I am not a child, I am nearly 40 years old, as Maria is. I dont see why my sitch is different to hers back then.
Virginia.. I have no idea what you are talking about, I have grown tremendously in the past 2 years, with 15 months of weekly C. I have learnt my lessons, changed at a core level and won my ex back along the way, which is the point of DBing is it not? I would hope people would be happy for me instead of this negativity.