You are trying to guilt your W into interactions with you if you're acting like this often. Damn it! Let her miss you. I wouldn't have even asked about her going with you and the kids to the carnival. Something you'll never know is what kind of impact it would have had on her knowing her kids had a great time with Dad!
She told you she was cramping- do you need a billboard to tell you that the emotions were rolling? Perfect time for her to see consequences. But...
Quit pursueing and I say this from a whole host of experience with more than one.
Ignore her for a while, and listen to Sandi she's been where your W is at.
Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
