Originally Posted By: stuck808
You're not a fool, it's just that we all change over time and forgot to nurture the things that should not have been neglected.


Yes, and I think the key here is time. Its easy to loose track as time slips by.




Originally Posted By: stuck808

What kind of things first attracted your W to you in the first place? See if that can be re-created. Most importantly, grow yourself and just take things one day at a time.


I think this follows with your other comment. People change over time as do what they find desirable. I honestly don't know what she saw in me when we first hooked up. There was a connection though. We used to talk a lot. We were best friends and did everything together. She claims that the OM can listen to her talk to him and open up to her, "more emotional." I have never been good at this and honestly never realized how much I kept to myself. I see it now but as you stated "Hindsight is always 20/20." With that said, I feel as though I can leave from this a better person no matter what happens.


Me: 32
WAW:33
M:8
T:13
D:3,5
Bomb #1 om:4/6/09
Bomb #2 papers signed 4/26/09