I dont know how to send them, maybe someone should start a thread of Music Therapy!

So you are sure that shes back on with the OM? What does everyone else think about future telling her that this is a deal breaker for his friendship? I told my H it was. I guess if its a deal breaker for you then its a deal breaker, but Im not sure if its a good idea to say it. I also wouldnt say anything until I was absolutely sure that she was in fact with him, you dont want to do anything to further injur your M, even if you end up leaving. I am a big beleiver in sort of having your M euthanized rather than beaten to death.

I dont know what to make of her behavior, other than if she is back with him, shes seeking you out for the physical interaction, not sex of course, that she cant get from him. But I just cant imagine that hes being "faithful" to her if hes in a different country?

Last edited by bluerain; 05/22/09 05:48 PM.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...