One more thing is that from her expressions or the vibe I get from her is that she's ready to run at any time.
Even when I took her out to see the movie this past weekend, I halfway expected her to stand up and run out the door. Or when we talk, I feel like the next thing to come out of her mouth is that she's leaving and never coming back.
It's getting to be where I don't know if I'm being paranoid, or if she really is wanting out and feels trapped or a little of both.
You ARE being paranoid, but that is perfectly normal right now. Also, you need to focus on you more. If you are so focused on how she is, don't you think it would make her more stressed and more likely to want to run? Would a happy go lucky guy make her feel more or less trapped than the guy that is putting her under the microscope?
Its so hard to do, but you gotta relax a little buddy. That starts with GAL. Go out and DO and LIVE. It really and truly will help.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
