I see you compromising alot in your above list. I see your H trying to compromise, getting frustrated and then retreating in anger. That would need to stop.
The D threats used to infuriate me so much. Everytime we had a fight he would throw that out. I am glad he isn't doing that.
I just don't understand if the M is the most important thing why are these WS sticking thier flags in the sand? Successful marriages don't do that.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!