Try to STOP the texting if you can. Do something else. It won't get you anywhere. He'll only focus on you and the argument. DETACH!!!
But, caveat, if you follow my thread you will see that I don't always follow my own medicine. But the other guys here have saved me plenty of times from going down cheeseless tunnels. And boy am I happy later on once I put the brakes on. Good luck and control those emotions.
