So it looks like the Pastor is the last man standing between filing and trying to reconcile. That sure is alot of pressure on one man...regardless of how good or funny he is. I have said in the past that I am not religious or at least I do not practice. You see, I have a very different idea of religion and Gods and it has nothing to do with the place of worship. I believe in the goodness that we all have inside. That is my religion.....personally I do not believe that a book, a sermon or talk with the Pope would alter significantly who I am inside. I probably pissed a few people off already.....however, I guess what I am trying to say here BBJ, is that if you think Dan is a good person...if he has that goodness in him, than keep fighting for your marriage. I have a hunch (from what you described during the last year or so) that Dan has deep rooted problems that will follow him for a while. I just hope he gets the help he needs to become the good husband and father that you and your kids deserve....
