Thanks again Jeff

Didn`t take the day off in the end up but have set up appts for solicitor and counsellor which wil entail my taking a day off next week.

At this point I`m just completely ignoring H. Staying as far removed as possible from him and his madness.

Went out last night with two gfs. They don`t know our sitch so it was nice to be able to leave all of this mess behind and enjoy a meal with great chat and laughter. A preview I hope of happier days ahead.

I`m home now, with the kids. H still at work. I`m going to keep as much joy and light in this house and in these times for me and the kids so that we won`t get to associate our lovely home with two much darkness, and this time of the year only with despair.

Hoping over to your thread now to see how you`re doing since you`re a lot further down this road than I am and I need to know that the light in this tunnel is not too far off.