For the vast majority of my life I've been a black and white type thinker, which I'm slowly changing but it's still there sometimes.
Black and white is great for math, engineering, medicine and accounting. Relationships revolve around emotions that are carnation red, pansy purple, ocean blue, sun yellow, baby skin pink, pine needle green, tangerine orange, pure white, and dense black. So your thinking has to include all of your senses, heart and soul.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.