thank you. its nice to have help from someone that understands completely.

its just that this has gone on for so long, i dont have it in me to suffer through his mood again, how its all about me.

i dont have the time to give to it unfortunately.

i have to figure out where i am moving to, and if he is coming with me or not because that has a factor in my decision.

so while i can get a life, i cant sit on our marriage.

so i feel so torn on what exactly to do.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09