WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[confusedinpa]

She called me today and left a message as I was in a meeting. It was mostly tactical but she did say that I could call her if I wanted to. I still haven't called her back as I really don't have anything to say. She did wind up mentioning an open house for a pgram our kids are in where they will be having ice cream sundaes. I couldn't tell if she was asking if we were going to go, nor if I could tell if she wanted to go as well

I do have a lunch planned with one of my friends today so that will keep me distracted from calling her. Ironically I had helped my friend when she was having problems with her marriage. Now she's doing the same for me. My wife had found out I was talking with her and had acted almost jealous. She had done that a few times I had gone out with friends.

That actually happended a couple of weeks ago as well. I had a business dinner ironically on Cinco de Mayo. we didn't know that was the day nor did the resturant we went to even served alcohol. She called while I was out so I could say goodnite to the boys. I did and when she started chatting with me afterwards, I said I had to get going after she talked for a few minutes. She asked if she could call me later. I said she could if she wanted to. She text me later that nite and called as well. I didn't answer. She did call me the next morning and asked what time I got home and was agitated I was home late

Very odd in my mind