Ok So here is a little more about the other night. I few days ago Wife noticed the mesh bag with the Rubber duckys hanging in the garage and asked where they came from. (Remember our date with the candles and bubble bath?). It was not really the right time to tell her so I just said I will tell you someday. There is a story behind them. So on the way to dinner I told her about how when we were going to stay at the time share and how I was going early and then after she arrived and after dinner I was going to come home to stay with son and meet up with her again in the morning? Well I told her my plan was after dinner to draw up a bubble bath and light some candles and leave the rubber duckys in the tub.. Give her a kiss and say see ya in the morning. She smiled. Now I don't know if it is just me or if any other guys out there feel the same way... but my wife has a way of comunicating non verbaly when she is annouyed or pissed off at me. She showed no signs of either. Like I said in the past she would have been at the least annoyed that I have not given up on us.. So today she tells me that she is having her Mom over for diner this Friday. I said "Oh Man" she asked "what?" I said I was thinking that since this was the last night that we were parents without kids that we could go to that restaurant that you were talking about. She said "we have spent enough money for now going out" So I just let it go... So now I am thinking that tonight (Friday) when she gets back from taking her mom home I need to have a plan to seduce her...Something easy going and not pressured. Maybe suggest to her a card game of strip poker?..
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
